Sunday, June 29, 2008

Senior Banquet

Each year, our church has a banquet to celebrate the graduating seniors (some shown to the left). Everyone dresses up, almost like it's a formal. It's a special time to honor the seniors -- sharing stories about them, watching a slide show of their life, having them share about their future plans, and having a time to pray for them. We also got to watch a slideshow of the entire last year for youth group. I think we all look forward to this night. We also enjoyed a gourmet meal. And, I can't help but give a shout out to the girls who decorated the club house -- it looked great, and I had fun taking you shopping for the supplies!

Us and Joy Me and the senior high girls - I'm leaning rather oddly Some of the boys and leaders, my hubby in the middle Special bro and sis (Megan is my sister's best friend) Too cute

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Where did the last month go?!!!

(Sorry for lack of pictures. We can't find our camera.)

We’ve been enjoying these past few weeks, but boy have they been packed full! I’m waiting for a little “slower pace of summer” that I dream about  . . . maybe sometime soon. For lack of knowing how to sum up the last few weeks . . . here it is:

May 16-17: Senior high girls sleepover at our house . . . with chicken parmesan, lots of talking games, and a movie

May 17: After the girls leave, we head to Washington, D.C. for a one-man show by Max McLean. We went with our friends the Shovers. MaxMcLean performed the Screw Tape Letters (by C.S. Lewis) . . . incredible! Then, we had a dinner out on the town.

May 18: Celebrated Mother’s Day late with my step-mom . . . family over for a meal

May 19: Mary Kay party at our house. My friend Courtney from Washington state was in and asked for me to host a party. It was a fun time – 12 of us!

May 20: Brian had a church softball game . . . which I am a HUGE fan of!

May 21: Fundraiser dinner for our church missions team. Then, band practice for me at church (for our worship team).

May 22: I got my hair cut . . . ha, ha . . . I wanted a change . . . so the hairdresser put my hair in a pony tail and buzzed off the whole ponytail with clippers. He loves to be dramatic. Anyway, I really like the cut.

May 23: Brian and I enjoyed a night out!!! It was nice to take a deep breath. Dinner at Olive Garden. Gotta love birthday gift cards – thanks Jenna!

May 24: Joy (my sister) had a piano recital. Then, we headed to a graduation party of my best friend’s (Krissy’s) brother. I hadn’t seen her (or her fam) in ages! It was a blast!

May 25: After church, the college and career served the monthly meal for homeless/low income people in the area. Then, we had a picnic at our leader’s house. You may wonder why we (as a married couple) still do stuff with the college and career . . . it’s because Brian is a deacon over this group . . . and they are so many of our close friends.

May 26: Memorial day . . . clean the house, lunch with my friend Krissy, and then a cookout at our house with family.

May 27: Prepare my Bible study lesson for senior high tomorrow night

May 28: (At work, I moved to a suite downstairs; just our operations department moved; I’m starting to like the new digs). That night, senior high girls over our house. . . fun with chocolate fondue and Bible study

May 29: I have a women’s committee from church over for dinner (WIC, for those of you familiar with it). There were 6 of us. It was our annual end-of-the-year dinner for the committee ladies. Brian also had a softball game this evening, which I couldn’t attend.

May 30: My sister Joy joins us for dinner at Uno’s and then we have a sleepover. I did a trial-run of styling her hair for her 8th grade graduation. So fun!

May 31: Leave for a wedding at 1pm. The wedding was for my old roommate Jamie. It was so wonderful and the homily was excellent. And, we went with my friend Krissy and her husband Steve. It was like a double date – we loved it!

June 1: Luncheon after church to celebrate new members. We went over to friends of ours whose daughters got baptized that day, and celebrated with them. Special times! Then, we went to a cookout that night with college and career.

June 2: I had an orthodontist appointment after work – argh! I don’t like those. I was loaded up on Advil. Then, I headed to Brian’s softball game with a Wawa milkshake in-tow to help me gain my sanity from all the pain.

June 3: Run errands with hubby and have a Mary Kay call for an hour at 8pm.

June 4: Phillies game with work peeps. I organized the event. There were 14 of us. We ended up having an extra ticket, so Brian joined us! The rain held off, and we had fun . . . even though the Phillies lost. We had great seats!

June 5: My sister Joy graduated from 8th grade, which apparently is a big thing at Plumstead Christian School. It was so wonderful! Joy has a girl in her class who has struggled with cancer for a year now. It was very tearful and joyful to see her graduate. She had a stroke while in surgery for her brain tumor, and God is working mightily to restore her.

June 6: Friends of ours, the Crowells come over for dinner. Brian grills. It was a fun time. Then, we packed in order to leave early for Pittsburgh the next day.

June 7: Leave at 7:30am for Pittsburgh with friends of ours. Brian and I got to ride in the back of their Jaguar the whole 5 hours. We loved it. And, we love the friends we were with, Pam and Steve. We had super conversation, and honestly our car ride was so refreshing for me – a rare thing for a car-sick-prone person. We then enjoyed our friend’s (John and Beth’s) wedding. Their reception was on John’s family’s farm. It was beautiful, but a VERY hot day.

June 8: We leave the hotel early to make it back home for 2 graduation parties. Pam and Steve were also attending them. We listened to a sermon by R.C. Sproul in the car. It was a great time. Then, we attended parties from 2-8:30pm.

June 9: I prepare my lesson for senior high girls Bible study tomorrow night. And, I always make phone calls to each of them (usually 2 nights before, but this time it was the night before). So, 22 phone calls and then prepping the lesson.

June 10: Senior high girls over for make-your-own-pizzas and Bible study. It was extra special because my sister just moved up to senior high this summer, so she joined us for the first time. I am loving that.

June 11: Attended a memorial service for a friend of ours mother. The family attends our “sister” church. It was a sad but also joyous time as we know she is with our Savior. She was only 57. Her testimony was unbelievable and such an inspiration.

June 12: Tonight, we head to Brian’s softball game. I have to leave early for worship team practice at church (which I love, but wish it didn’t conflict with Bri’s game).

June 13: Relax after work with my hubby . . . whatever floats our boat!

I guess things have seemed pretty busy. But, don’t worry, Brian and I still get to see each other during this rather packed schedule. I never anticipated May and June being so full. Maybe this is a normal routine for a mom. I think I’d definitely like one night a week though without plans or a necessary agenda. I guess this kind of explains why I haven’t blogged. I’ve been thinking of you readers though . . . knowing that you’ve probably given up on us :) . . .

Well, enjoy the weekend. More to come . . . sometime soon . . .

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Ready for some heavy reading?

We've been busy lately,
hence the few posts.
Read until your heart is content.
6 posts below.

My husband, the chef

Our church has an annual Mother Daughter Banquet every year, and this year the theme was Seasonings of Life . . . and the verse "Taste and see that the Lord is good" (Psalm 34:8). And, we decided to do an Iron Chef cook-off as some entertainment for the evening. We asked 4 men from the church to be the "Iron chefs." I made aprons with the senior high girls, and they even had chef hats to wear. It was so fun.

Brian was one of the competing chefs. The men were each given $25 to provide 5 appetizers in 30 minutes for the judges. Brian chose to make his amazing steak medallions: filet wrapped in applewood-smoked bacon, and topped with crunchy onion straws. And, he had some flare that he added for presentation. It was amazing. And, it was so fun to watch all the men making their own creations. A good church friend was the MC. The evening was a blast!

I sat with my step-mom and sister Joy.

After the meal, the ladies had a time of worship (which I helped lead) and we then listened to a speaker. The lady that spoke was great: using the illustration of food as a common idol for many women . . . and how we love to create other idols that we think can solve our problems and satisfy us . . . but, really it's only the Lord and feasting on His Word that truly satisfy. In her ending prayer, she prayed, "Lord, help us not to fear the future and our future sin, but help us to trust in your power and strength to overcome." Those were words that I needed to hear. I think the more aware I become of my sin year after year, I have the tendency to fear my capability to sin. Praise Jesus for His power in our lives. My prayer is, "More of You, and less of me."

Cory's baby shower

One of my co-workers is expecting her first child, and I thought it would be fun to throw her a shower. It was fun planning the surprise with the other office ladies. We were even able to get her husband to come. She was so shocked! I made my first diaper cake for the shower (thanks to Denise for her instructions). Well, really Brian and I made it. We needed two hands.

One of my co-workers thinks I need to start a business making these cakes. I took it as a compliment, but thought it would be hilarious. Then, as more people at work asked if I could make one for a shower they are going to, the wheels started spinning in my head . . . and I was thinking, hmm, maybe I should begin advertising. My dad has always told me I should start my own business selling hand-made stationary/cards/invitations, framed art, . . . and now diaper cakes. We'll see. For you regular blog-readers who see some of the pictures I post of my makings, what do you think? Should/could I start a business selling these things? These cakes would only really be sold to locals because they would be a logistical nightmare to transport far. Either way, I have 1 diaper cake order already for this summer :).

I also made some chocolate-covered strawberries
The spread
The parents-to-be
Opening gifts

Mini golfing

We came home early from the beach on Saturday because we had Couples Fellowship that night. We decided it was time for a social, so we all enjoyed some mini-golf and then a BBQ and game night at our house. It was such a gorgeous night. Brian got 3 hole-in-ones . . . it was nuts! He beat me of course, but not by much :). The picture to the left are some peeps in a cave, where one of the holes was . . . crazy.

We love our couples small group. I wish I took more pictures of the night, but I only have a few pictures from mini-golfing.

David, Mike and Me (trying to figure out what I'm doing)

My Brian

Jenna and me

Ocean City, NJ

Brian and I have been SUPER busy lately, especially with Brian finishing up his 20-credit semester. And, we were in SUPER need of a little vaca together. We had a blast at a friend of our's condo in Ocean City, NJ a few weekends ago. We drove down on a Wednesday night and came home on Saturday. It was so refreshing to enjoy the beach, good food, each other, good books, and television (something we don't watch very often).

On Thursday, we went to the Chatterbox (photo to the left) for breakfast and did a little Mother's Day shopping. All the sudden, we saw the sun come out in full-force, so we practically ran back to the condo and got into our bathing suits and headed to the beach. It was honestly so hot and sunny! It was such a treat to soak in some rays, especially for my Casper-like skin. We were the ONLY people on the beach, and I mean ONLY! You ask why? Well, even though it was a beautifully hot sunny day, it was incredibly windy . . . so, windy that we got completely sand-covered. When Brian looked over at me and saw that the sand was beginning to give me a 5-o'clock shadow on my face, he figured it was time to pack up. It was so sandy that I couldn't even open my eyes or mouth -- you could call us insane and desperate for the beach :). We decided to head back to the condo, and we simply laid out on the 3-floor deck. Ahh, sand-free at last! Not really, we were still caked in sand, but we were at least not adding to it. (It took me 3 days to become truly sand-free . . . it was all in my scalp, ears, nose, . . . everywhere!).

We also enjoyed the boardwalk and some pizza at Mack & Manco's. Oh, that is the best pizza! Some other highlights of the weekend: Mallon's sticky buns, dinner at Island Grille, seeing the Iron Man, reading the Bible together, feasting on homemade guacamole with fuzzy navals, and napping whenever we wanted!


We think vacations are super-dooper!

Long-lost best friend


I was best friend's with Amanda in middle school, but we had lost touch when we both started different high schools. She was successful in hunting me down this last fall, and it has been wonderful reconnecting. She and her husband are expecting, so I had the joy of attending Amanda's shower in early May. It was so wonderful to see her family. I have such fond memories of hanging out with her sisters and going to the beach with them often.

Amanda and her sisters
Opening presents
Part of my gift. She loves Disney

The Shover's

Brian and I had the joy of attending Mike's graduation from Philadelphia Biblical University (PBU) in early May. Brian and Mike went to high school together and have been going to PBU together this last year. During this last year, Mike and his fam started attending our church, and we simply have grown to love this family. They are part of our church's Young Couples group. And, their two girls are precious. And, since Mike joined our church's softball team, we all do a lot of cheering together.
Mike, we're excited for you, . . . but Brian will surely miss you. He won't have a chapel buddy anymore. Blessings on what God has in store for you all.

Friday, May 2, 2008

FREEDOM!!!



At 9:33 AM I walked out the door of the Biblical Learning Center at PBU and did my best William Wallace impression FREEEEEEDOOOOOMM! After what has been a very long and by the end wearisome semester, I am finally free... for three and a half weeks that is. In the rush to finish school as fast as possible, I took 20 credits this semester, I hope to never do that again.
Now I love to read, but this semester ended up being a bit ridiculous. My required reading included Genesis - Esther, a 750 page Human Development text, Pilgrim's Progress, The Wise Woman, The Little Princess, The Man Who Was Thursday, War in Heaven, Out of Silent Planet, The Great Divorce, Voyage of the Dawn Treader, Till We Have Faces, The Four Quartets, and various other text book reading. IT was exhausting, it was frustrating, and many days I felt like I actually learn more when I am not in school.
Among the frustrations there were many bright spots and breaths of fresh air. In February I had the opportunity to spend two days in an elementary school teaching adapted physical education. I must admit I had some reservations to go in an work with kids with various disabilities, unsure of my own abilities to relate with the students and relate PE and sports to them. This anxiety quickly ended as the kids came in and I found that it was just the same as working with kids who don't have disabilities. Love them and share your love of sports and activities with them. My favorite class ended up being a class of five boys who were all autistic. It was amazing to see the difference between the Teacher I was working with, who had a love for these kids, and their regular teachers, who viewed it only as a job. I got to play with them, chase them, teach them to use words to express themselves, engage one boy who always keeps to himself in a group game (he talked in class for the first time ever the following week) it was all so awesome to see kids grow and make progress, not just in their abilities to play sports or participate in PE activities, but to learn about relationships, communication, and motor skills that will help them in their daily life.
Another teaching opportunity was through something called Kid's Sport. This is a program my school runs that serves the double purpose of providing PE for home school kids and providing us with opportunities to grow as teachers. I had a class of about 18 students from age 13-17, can be a tough group. The 6 year old group is tough because they are all over the place, my group is tough because they are worried what others will think about them, or question why they should do an activity, or try to figure out what they can get away with. Most of this is solved by my physical size, booming gym voice, and the beard helps too. It ended up being a great time to teach and participate and coach these kids. Many of them do not have a regular PE teacher and have poor motor skills, many simply lacked the confidence in their abilities and just need someone to be their fan. One example was a day when we were playing flag football. Everyone had to rotate through playing QB and I kept encouraging one girl to take her turn (I saw here throw in the practice drills and she was amazing tight spiral and all) she kept saying no I can't I'm not good at it. I told her she was and this went on for most of the class. Finally everyone else on the team had been QB and she was the only one who was allowed to be QB under the rules we had. One last word of encouragement and she ends up throwing the game winning TD as the class period ended.. AWESOME!! (and a big high-five) This is what I love about PE encouraging kids, teaching life skills such as teamwork, sportsmanship, relationships, health and wellness, things that can transfer into everyday life regardless of your career or age. I love giving word of encouragement, the high-five, and see kids smile and see that they really can do these things and have their sense of confidence and self worth grow. No offense to other school subjects but it is not often that a teacher says "Awesome! that was great how you filled in that scan tron sheet! High-five!"
I am excited now for a great summer, time to relax, read some books I have been wanting to read for a long time, get back in the gym, and gear up for two semester worth of Greek this summer. I am really looking forward to OBX and our little Ocean City trip next weekend. Well gotta go, check for my next post, probably about 6 months from now as the trend has been going.
Brian